Wednesday, August 14, 2013

Social Networks, Friend or Foe


The culture we live in today encourages everyone to post on social networking sites and tweet where they are and what they did all day. It can be great to know what your friends are doing to pleasantly surprise them by showing up at a sports event they are attending. But on the reverse side, having someone you don’t know show up at an event is not a pleasant surprise but a horrible situation. No wonder why so many online predators have a field day with all the information they can gather from social networking sites. Online predators know they can be whoever they want to be on a social networking site. They study what young girls and boys like and what the newest trend is, in other words, online predators do their homework on children. 

If online predators are doing their homework to friend our children, don’t you think as parents we owe it to them to do our homework on the latest digital trend, game or technology? 

The majority of the social networking sites require children to be at least 13 and these sites have policies stating the age requirement, but it is really up to the parents to keep children under 13 off these sites. As well as, parents need to make such their children are not sharing too much personal information on social networking sites and setting the privacy level to the highest. 

As a parent it is okay to be a pest sometimes (meaning you are involved in their activities), especially if it is for the safety of your children. Knowing what activities your children like to do online and remembering it can change every week or sometime every few days. Children hear about a new game or website from their friends and they will want to check it out, if they haven’t done so at their friend’s house or school. So being a pesky parent is okay if you want to stay in the know of how many friends they have on a social networking site and they actually are friends with them in real life. This is just part of doing parent’s homework.

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